Monday, April 26, 2010


My spirit was filled this weekend. I traveled about two and a half hours east to a small town in Benin called Possotome. I went with three friends, Alainie, Jane and Hettie. There isn't much in Possotome. No waterfalls. No hiking. No large, grand scaled African adventures, but I came home more refreshed than any of those weekends.

We left late Friday evening after everyone was done with work and arrived at our hotel close to eleven. It was dark but even in the darkness you could see the beauty. Our hotel was right on the lake. They were in the process of building a dock into the lake and we grabbed a drink and sat out on the unfinished dock. The stars were amazing, along with the moon. I knew this was the start to a great weekend.

Waking up on Saturday we ventured to breakfast. Sitting there at breakfast we sat and watched some men making the boards for the dock. No power tools here. All power came from their hands. Splitting logs with axes and peeling the logs. So much work went into each board being made. At breakfast we planned our day, to find a fishing boat so we could go out onto the lake. We figured we would walk into town and see who we would meet. We went back to our room to get some things and while there we looked out our window to rain. Lots and lots of rain. It went from a sunny, humid day to torrential down pore within minutes. Plans quickly changed and we decided to go back to where we ate and wait out the storm there with some scrabble. By the time we ran back we were drenched! I love African rain storms. The amount of rain that can come from the sky is like nothing I see in Washington, and I have seen some great rain storms in Washington. The day quickly turned into a day of scrabble, tea and talking. Relaxing day for our souls!

That evening after the rain stopped we journeyed into town to see what we could find. The air was cool as it happens just after rain storms. Pretty much the only time you can go outside and not be immediately drenched in sweat. We knew Possotome, and Benin for that matter, was big on voodoo. We came across fetishes on our walk. There were statues made of mud and stick and shrines erected. Small skulls of animals tied around trees to protect the tree from vandals. Hollow is the only way I can really describe it. I prayed a lot on that walk.

Sunday morning we woke up and knew we had only a few hours to find a fishing boat. That was our goal for the weekend. We walked into town again and came across a group of kids playing foosball on the side of the road. We stopped and talked with some of them for a bit and asked one boy, ten years old, if he knew where we could find a fisherman to take us out in his boat. He said he knew as he took us down a road toward the lake. When we got to the lake we saw a boat tied up and he said it was his fathers boat and he would take us out. His friend, Francois, came along too, a boy of 18. We figured this would be a great adventure so we all climbed into the narrow boat. I don't know how the boat didn't flip. It was the rockiest boat I think ever made but they took us around to see the fishermen and parts of the lake.

They told us they had a coconut tree and asked if we wanted to see their house and have a coconut. Who would say no, so we pulled into some reeds and the young boy shimmied himself up to the top of the palm tree. He walked around up there like he was on solid ground and kicked down the coconuts. We put them into the boat and went back to where we started and tied up the boat. They took us up to their house and cut open the coconut and we drank, then they cut it open so we could eat the inside. I had another coconut moment like this a few weeks ago but I liked the taste of it so much more this day. Maybe it's because of the sheer randomness of this moment. These two young kids showed such hospitality. Their father walked by at one point and we all figured he was thinking, where did my kid find these crazy yovos! But there we sat, eating our coconut and as Alainie had said, this was a John 10:10 moment, living life to the full!

Driving back to the ship in a taxi Sunday afternoon, my spirit felt full. It was a weekend I needed to get away and have John 10:10 moments. To sit and play scrabble in a rainstorm, have an adventure with two kids, and most of all just talk and get to know three great friends.


cheryl said...

Great pictures Sarah! Sometimes we need a rainy weekend to water our souls more than we need an amazing adventure. I'm glad it was so refreshing and still fun.

Olufemi said...

Wow, i'm so excited I finally found someone doing something I have the calling to do as well. My name is Olufemi Ajiboye a final year student of the department of Sociology and Anthropology at the Obafemi Awolowo University in Nigeria. I run a women and child right advocacy group which I call "Solution Initiative" at the student level in my university and its a course I have pledged to dedicate my life after university to.

I first heard about VVF on a radio program in Nigeria. No doubt the story of the women touched my heart, and as an upcoming gender equality advocator, I ignited my passion and read more about the health issue, and that gave me a glimpse of what it is about.

Sometimes last year, I applied for the Clinton Global Initiative University (CGI U) 2013. And I submitted a commitment to action on "Achieving a VVF free generation in Nigeria." From a pool of over 12,000 application received from 180 countries (including Nigeria) and 50 states in USA, my commitment to action was selected with about 1,000 applications to attend the Sixth Annual Clinton Global Initiative University (CGIU) which holds April 5 – 7, 2013 at Washington University in St. Louis. A gathering which I look forward to attending and sharing my thoughts on how to achieve the feat in Nigeria.

I read through your blog and I must commend you for doing a good work. I really look forward to working with you as a volunteer on this health issue sometimes in Nigeria or in any part of the world. I strongly believe that together we can save humanity. May the Almighty God continue to strengthen you to achieve more.
I will be in constant touch with you to learn more about this health issue from your first hand perspective. Thanks

Name: Olufemi Ajiboye